Yeah, the article does make a lot of sense. as you know, i've always been a proponent of the continuum way of looking at things. and i know that despite coming out as bi to my mom a year or so ago, she is thrilled and relieved that i am now engaged to a male, and she can once and for all write off me being bisexual as a "phase." but i definitely think that at anypoint in time, regardless of age or what sexaulity they identify themselves as, they can meet someone of either sex, and be surprised at their feelings. In my opinion, it;s about as surprising as someone saying "in 25 years, i have never been attracted to a brunette, yet now i am!?" *shrug* i relize that it's not quite the same, but you get the comparison. Lauren